
Constant criticism, nit-picking, no empathy, control freak, denial, charm, glib,
compulsive liar, devious, manipulative?
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The serial bully
How to spot signs and symptoms of serial bullies, sociopaths and psychopaths
including the sociopathic behaviour of the industrial psychopath and the corporate psychopath
Types of serial bully:
The Attention-Seeker,
The Wannabe,
The Guru and The Sociopath
"All cruelty springs from weakness."
(Seneca, 4BC-AD65)
"Most organisations have a serial bully. It never ceases to
amaze me how one person's divisive, disordered, dysfunctional behaviour can permeate the
entire organisation like a cancer."
Tim Field
"The truth is incontrovertible; malice may attack it, ignorance
my deride it, but in the end, there it is."
Winston Churchill
"Lack of knowledge of, or unwillingness to recognise,
or outright denial of the existence of the serial bully is the
most common reason for an unsatisfactory outcome of a bullying case for both the
employee and employer"
Tim Field
I estimate one person in thirty, male or female, is a serial bully. Who does the
following profile describe in your life?
The serial bully:
- is a convincing, practised liar and when called to account, will make
up anything spontaneously to fit their needs at that moment
- has a Jekyll and Hyde nature - is vile, vicious and vindictive in
private, but innocent and charming in front of witnesses; no-one can (or wants to) believe
this individual has a vindictive nature - only the current target of the serial bully's
aggression sees both sides; whilst the Jekyll side is described as "charming"
and convincing enough to deceive personnel, management and a tribunal, the Hyde side is
frequently described as "evil"; Hyde is the real person, Jekyll is an act
- excels at deception and should never be underestimated in
their capacity to deceive
- uses excessive charm and is always plausible and convincing when peers,
superiors or others are present (charm can be used to deceive as well as to
cover for lack of empathy)
- is glib, shallow and superficial with plenty of fine
words and lots of form - but there's no substance
- is possessed of an exceptional verbal facility and will outmanoeuvre
most people in verbal interaction, especially at times of conflict
- is often described as smooth, slippery, slimy, ingratiating,
fawning, toadying, obsequious, sycophantic
- relies on mimicry, repetition and regurgitation to convince others
that he or she is both a "normal" human being and a tough dynamic manager, as in
extolling the virtues of the latest management fads and pouring forth the accompanying
jargon
- is unusually skilled in being able to anticipate what people want to hear
and then saying it plausibly
- cannot be trusted or relied upon
- fails to fulfil commitments
- is emotionally retarded with an arrested level of emotional development; whilst language
and intellect may appear to be that of an adult, the bully displays the emotional age
of a five-year-old
- is emotionally immature and emotionally untrustworthy
- exhibits unusual and inappropriate attitudes to sexual matters, sexual behaviour
and bodily functions; underneath the charming exterior there are often suspicions
or hints of sex discrimination and sexual harassment, perhaps also sexual dysfunction,
sexual inadequacy, sexual perversion, sexual violence or sexual abuse
- in a relationship, is incapable of initiating or sustaining intimacy
- holds deep prejudices (eg against the opposite gender, people of a
different sexual orientation, other cultures and religious beliefs, foreigners, etc -
prejudiced people are unvaryingly unimaginative) but goes to great lengths to keep this
prejudicial aspect of their personality secret
- is self-opinionated and displays arrogance, audacity,
a superior sense of entitlement and sense of invulnerability and untouchability
- has a deep-seated contempt of clients in contrast to his or her
professed compassion
- is a control freak and has a compulsive need to control
everyone and everything you say, do, think and believe; for example, will launch an
immediate personal attack attempting to restrict what you are permitted to say if you
start talking knowledgeably about psychopathic personality or antisocial personality disorder
in their presence - but aggressively maintains the right to talk (usually unknowledgeably)
about anything they choose; serial bullies despise anyone who enables others to see
through their deception and their mask of sanity
- displays a compulsive need to criticise whilst simultaneously refusing
to value, praise and acknowledge others, their achievements, or their existence
- shows a lack of joined-up thinking with conversation
that doesn't flow and arguments that don't hold water
- flits from topic to topic so that you come away feeling you've never
had a proper conversation
- refuses to be specific and never gives a straight answer
- is evasive and has a Houdini-like ability to escape accountability
- undermines and destroys anyone who the
bully perceives to be an adversary, a potential threat, or who can see through the bully's mask
- is adept at creating conflict between those who would otherwise collate
incriminating information about them
- is quick to discredit and neutralise anyone who can talk knowledgeably
about antisocial or sociopathic behaviors
- may pursue a vindictive vendetta against anyone who dares to held
them accountable, perhaps using others' resources and contemptuous of the
damage caused to other people and organisations in pursuance of the vendetta
- is also quick to belittle, undermine, denigrate and discredit anyone
who calls, attempts to call, or might call the bully to account
- gains gratification from denying people what they are entitled to
- is highly manipulative, especially of people's
perceptions and emotions (eg guilt)
- poisons peoples' minds by manipulating their perceptions
- when called upon to share or address the needs and concerns of others, responds with impatience,
irritability and aggression
- is arrogant, haughty, high-handed, and a know-all
- often has an overwhelming, unhealthy and narcissistic attention-seeking
need to portray themselves as a wonderful, kind, caring and compassionate person,
in contrast to their behaviour and treatment of others; the bully sees nothing wrong with
their behavior and chooses to remain oblivious to the discrepancy between how they like to be seen
and how they are seen by others
- is spiritually dead although may loudly profess some religious
belief or affiliation
- is mean-spirited, officious, and often unbelievably petty
- is mean, stingy, and financially untrustworthy
- is greedy, selfish, a parasite and an emotional vampire
- is always a taker and never a giver
- is convinced of their superiority and has an overbearing belief
in their qualities of leadership but cannot distinguish between leadership
(maturity, decisiveness, assertiveness, co-operation, trust, integrity) and bullying
(immaturity, impulsiveness, aggression, manipulation, distrust, deceitfulness)
- often fraudulently claims qualifications, experience, titles,
entitlements or affiliations which are ambiguous, misleading, or bogus
- often misses the semantic meaning of language, misinterprets what is
said, sometimes wrongly thinking that comments of a satirical, ironic or general negative
nature apply to him or herself
- knows the words but not the song
- is constantly imposing on others a false reality made up of distortion and fabrication
- sometimes displays a seemingly limitless demonic energy especially when
engaged in attention-seeking activities or evasion of accountability and is often a
committeeaholic or apparent workaholic
Responsibility
The serial bully appears to lack insight into his or her behaviour and seems to be
oblivious to the crassness and inappropriateness thereof; however, it is more likely that
the bully knows what they are doing but elects to switch off the moral and ethical
considerations by which normal people are bound. If the bully knows what they are doing,
they are responsible for their behaviour and thus liable for its consequences to other
people. If the bully doesn't know what they are doing, they should be suspended from duty
on the grounds of diminished responsibility and the provisions of the Mental Health Act should apply.
On this page
The can of worms behind every case
Introduction to the serial bully |
Detailed profile of the serial bully
Types of serial bully: The Attention-Seeker,
The Wannabe, The Sociopath and The Guru
Denial - avoiding acceptance of responsibility
Sexual assault and denial in the Paul Hickson case
Projection | Affairs |
Validity of testimony | Other web pages
On another page
Antisocial Personality Disorder (APD) |
Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD)
Paranoid Personality Disorder (PPD) |
Borderline Personality Disorder
Munchausen Syndrome By Proxy |
Attention seeking
How, where and why bullies
target their victims
The focus of this page is the serial bully in the workplace, however, the profile is
relevant to most types of abusers, including:
- adult bullies in the workplace
- abusive and violent partners and family members
- abusers of those in care
- bullying neighbours, landlords, authorities, etc
- con artists and swindlers
- cult leaders
- child bullies who are going to grow up (sic) to be adult bullies
- racial and sexual harassers
- sexual abusers and paedophiles
- stalkers
- arsonists
- rapists and those who commit acts of sexual violence
- violent offenders including organized serial killers (ie those not suffering paranoid
schizophrenia etc)
Anecdotal evidence indicates that the serial bully in the workplace is also a serial
bully at home and in the community.
The common objective of these offenders is power, control,
domination and subjugation. What varies is the means by
which these are pursued, ie the way in which violence is expressed. Most of the offenders
in the list above commit criminal or arrestable offences; the serial bully commits mostly
non-arrestable offences, for example:
- negligence
- incompetence
- maladministration
- neglect of duty
- dereliction of duty
- misappropriation of budgets
- financial irregularities and fiddling the books
- fiddling expenses
- falsifying time sheets
- pilfering
- stealing, diverting, skimming, or "losing" clients' money and investments
- embezzlement
- fraud
- deception
- malpractice
- misrepresentation
- conspiracy (eg to obstruct or pervert the course of justice)
- using the employer's resources to run their own business on the side
- moonlighting for employer's clients or competitors
- leaking information to people who should not be in possession of that information
- awarding contracts to family and friends
- failure to fulfil obligations
- breaches of health and safety regulations
- breaches of rules and regulations
- breaches of codes of conduct
- improper use of fraternal allegiances
- indiscretions
- impropriety
- inappropriate sexual conduct
- being the target of previous grievance and disciplinary action
- being the target of previous legal action (unfair dismissal, harassment, personal injury, etc)
- fraudulent qualifications and misleading or bogus claims of professional affiliation
(check the bully's CV carefully) [More]
- collusion
- corruption
- being sacked or asked to leave their previous job(s)
- recruitment through nepotism or favouritism rather than ability
- extra-marital affairs - see below
- at home: poor credit rating, verbal abuse, domestic abuse, neglect, abandonment
Most cases of bullying involve a serial bully - one person to whom all the dysfunction
can be traced. The serial bully has done this before, is doing it now - and will do it
again. Investigation will reveal a string of predecessors who have either left
unexpectedly or in suspicious circumstances, have taken early or ill-health retirement,
have been unfairly dismissed, have been involved in disciplinary or legal action, or have
had stress breakdowns. Serial bullies exploit the recent frenzy of downsizing and
reorganisation to hinder recognition of the pattern of previous cases.
The serial bully in the workplace is often found in a job which is a position of power,
has a high administrative or procedural content but little or no creative requirement, and
which provides opportunities for demonstrating a "caring" or
"leadership" nature.
Introduction to the serial bully
Embittered by an abusive
upbringing, seething with resentment, irritated by others' failure to fulfil his or
her superior sense of entitlement, and fuelled by anger resulting from rejection, the
serial bully displays an obsessive, compulsive and self-gratifying urge to displace their
uncontrolled aggression onto others whilst exhibiting an apparent lack of insight into
their behavior and its effect on people around them. Jealousy and envy motivate the bully
to identify a competent and popular individual who is then controlled and subjugated
through projection of the bully's own inadequacy and
incompetence. When the target asserts their right not to be bullied, a
paranoid fear of exposure
compels the bully to perceive that person as a threat and hence neutralise and dispose of
them as quickly as possible. Once a person has been eliminated there's an interval of
between 2 days and 2 weeks before the bully chooses another target and the cycle starts again.
Detailed profile of the serial bully
The serial bully also:
- is selfish and acts out of self-interest, self-aggrandisement and self-preservation at
all times; everything can be traced back to the self - even the seemingly innocuous "How
are you today?" translates to "Is there any comeback on me as to how
you're feeling today?"
- is insensitive, often callously indifferent to the needs of others, and especially when
others are experiencing difficulty (vulnerability is a major stimulant to the serial bully)
- is incapable of reciprocity, ie unable and unwilling to reciprocate any positive gesture
- sees anyone attempting to be conciliatory as a sucker to be exploited
- uses criticism, humiliation, etc in the guise of addressing shortfalls in performance -
in reality, these are for control and subjugation, not for performance enhancement
- appears to be intelligent but often performs poorly in academic or professional roles,
despite appearances; the intelligence is focused exclusively on deviousness, cunning,
scheming, manipulation, evasiveness, deceptiveness, quick-wittedness, craftiness,
self-centredness, etc
- may be passive aggressive, blowing hot and cold, superficially cooperative
but motivated by retribution, stubborn, uncoachable, use their intelligence
to excuse and justify their behaviour, and they detest anyone more competent
than themselves - which is most people
- is unable to maintain confidentiality, often breaching it with
misrepresentation, distortion and fabrication
- distorts, twists, concocts and fabricates criticisms and allegations, and abuses the
disciplinary procedures - again, for control and subjugation, not for performance
enhancement
- uses gossip, back-stabbing or spreads rumours to undermine, discredit and isolate
- is untrustworthy and unable to trust others - this partly explains the compulsion for
excessive monitoring
- is drawn to positions of power and abuses that power
- alters the employer's procedures to make it difficult or impossible for
others to hold the bully accountable using those procedures
- is autocratic and dictatorial, often using phrases like "you shouldn't..." or
"you ought to..."
- may appear superficially competent and professional at their job, but behind the facade
is inadequate, inept, poor at their job, often incompetent; survives only by plagiarising
other people's work, and being carried by those they bully
- wraps himself or herself in a flag or tradition and usurps others' objectives, thereby
nurturing compliance, reverence, deference, endorsement and obeisance; however, such
veneration and allegiance is divisive, being a corruption for personal power which
exhibits itself through the establishment of a clique, coterie, cabal, faction, or gang
- is a divisive and disruptive influence, their departments are dysfunctional and
inefficient, and their behavior prevents staff from performing their duties
- is unusually susceptible to minor slights or perceived slights and bears grudges which
may be acted on years later when the transgressor can be denied promotion or downsized in
the bully's "reorganisation"
- gains gratification from provoking people into emotional or irrational responses but is
quick to claim provocation by others when challenged
- has a short-term focus and often cannot think or plan ahead more than 24 hours
- appears to have a short, selective memory and often cannot or will not remember what
they said, did, or committed to more than 24 hours ago - but is always able to remember
your faults, often from years ago
- the serial bully seems to live in a bubble of the present and when challenged will
spontaneously make things up; the bully genuinely seems to believe the fabrication; from a
psychiatric viewpoint this could be called confabulation; from a moral viewpoint, it's
called lying
- is often like a child who has never grown up
- exhibits immature behaviour and poor manners
- has poor communication skills, poor interpersonal skills, poor social skills
- often misses social cues
- has poor language skills, and uses almost exclusively negative language with few or no
positive words; is often limited to parroting fad phrases and regurgitating the latest
management jargon
- has poorly-defined moral and ethical boundaries
- acts out of gratification and self-interest only, often using and hiding behind the employer
- extrovert bullies tend to be shouters and screamers, are highly visible, and bully from the front
- extrovert bullies can be charismatic and seem to be able to bewitch people into
following and supporting them
- introvert bullies - the most dangerous types - tend to sit in the background and recruit
others to do the bullying for them - when dealing with this type of bullying, identify the
arch-bully in the background and focus single-mindedly on that person - the others will melt away
- is a killjoy, a wet blanket, is unreceptive and finds fault with or pours scorn on other
people's ideas and suggestions, but may regurgitate them later claiming to be the originator
- often has a hatred of a sector of society, eg ethnic minorities, disabled people, etc
- often has a hatred of certain professional groups, eg psychologists, psychiatrists,
social workers, counsellors, therapists
- is unimaginative and lacks the skills of creativity and innovation
- rarely has any ideas of his or her own; tends to regurgitate what others (especially
superiors) say rather than use own thinking
- is a plagiarist, steals other people's work - and the credit for it
- has a writing style that is disjointed, lacks flow and consistency, tends to make
contradictory statements, and has the feel of a young teenager trying to write like a
grown-up (apologies to teenagers)
- often uses false praise or praise which is inappropriate to the circumstances; this is
partly to make the bully feel good, partly for the benefit of witnesses, partly poor
judgement, partly immaturity, and partly for control and subjugation to throw their target
off guard
- is unable and unwilling to value others and their contributions and achievements; is
often scornful
- shows discrepancy in valuing tasks, deliberately devaluing the work and achievements of
others; when the bully does a certain job, it's onerous, difficult and the bully needs
lots of recognition; when their target does the same job it's trivial, of little or no
value, not worth mentioning
- is ungrateful and rarely (if ever) says "thank you" or "well done"
(except, perhaps, if impressionable witnesses are present)
- is frequently sarcastic, especially in contexts where sarcasm is inappropriate and unprofessional
- is unable to assess the importance of events and tasks, often making an unnecessary fuss
over trivia whilst ignoring important or urgent things
- exhibits duplicity and hypocrisy, eg says one thing one day and denies it the next
- often has an overwhelming (and unhealthy) need to feel recognised and wanted
- is fastidious, often has an unhealthy obsession with cleanliness or orderliness
- is insincere and false
- has never learnt the skills of and has little concept of empathy; may use charm and
mimicry to compensate
- attempts at empathy are superficial, amateur, often inappropriate or inappropriately
high, and based on mimicry rather than genuine concern - and are for the purpose of making
the bully look and feel good, especially in front of witnesses
- when required to show empathy, eg someone is in distress or needs help, responds either
with impatience and aggression (if no-one else is present), or with a fulsome and effusive
attempt at empathy (if witnesses are present)
- is unwilling to apologise for mistakes, except occasionally when witnesses are present,
then the apology is fulsome, artificial, and inappropriate - but sufficiently convincing
for peers and superiors
- is quick to blame others
- is uncharacteristically fulsome and effusive, especially in front of witnesses - but
hollow and insincere
- is devious and manipulative (especially female bullies)
- is spiteful and vengeful (ditto)
- uses aggression almost exclusively but claims to be assertive (assertiveness is about
recognising and respecting the rights of oneself and others)
- has unpredictable mood swings, blows hot and cold, often suddenly and without warning
- is inconsistent in their judgement, often overruling, ignoring or denying what they said previously
- is inflexible and unable to evaluate options and alternatives
- is unforgiving and often seizes on and exploits others' mistakes or perceived mistakes
- is financially irresponsible and often has a bad credit rating
- has a cavalier attitude to Health and Safety
- is quick to anger and often has an unpredictable temper
- can be unpredictably and disarmingly pleasant, especially when you are unmasking them in
front others - this plays on people's sympathies and is a use of guilt for manipulation
and control
- is often humourless and emotionally flat; attempts at humour are often shallow and
superficial
- is insecure and sees others as a threat; the threat seems to comprise a fear of exposure
of inadequacy, and often borders on paranoia; the individual may have a
paranoid personality
- is uncommunicative and uncooperative, and is evasive when asked for information (eg by
subordinates)
- for communication, often relies excessively or exclusively on memos, emails, yellow
stickies, or third parties and other strategies for avoiding face-to-face contact
- has no listening skills, ignores and overrules you; it can be like talking to a brick wall
- displays inappropriate and hostile body language
- makes inappropriate eye contact, either too little (or none at all) or too much (staring)
- often reported as having an evil stare, sometimes with eyes that appear black rather
than coloured
- is unable to sustain a mature adult conversation (you may only realise this in retrospect)
- sees people as objects (in the same way that child sex abusers and rapists see their
targets as objects for their gratification)
- often displays interpersonal behavior that is ill-advised, especially with a sexual
overtone, eg invasion of intimate zone, gestures or comments which include inappropriate
sexual references or innuendo, being inappropriately intimate with clients, being
too friendly too soon, etc
- is incapable of intimacy
- lacks a conscience and shows no remorse
- displays excessive and rigid adherence to procedures, rules, regulations etc, usually as
a cover for lack of creativity; their work is largely bureaucratic in nature and obedience
of orders from above is a priority
- finds ritual important and comforting, and frequently indulges in ritual and ritualistic activity
- often forms or joins lots of committees to look busy and important but never achieves
anything of significance or value
- when called upon to exercise judgement, relies on and insists on rigid adherence to
procedures and rules (this is an abdication of responsibility and an admission of
inability to manage)
- gains gratification from bullying people by imposing rules, regulations, laws etc and
insisting on adherence thereto, regardless of their relevance or efficacy
- often exhibits a psychopathic personality, the main features of which are:
- an unwillingness to conform to the rules of society: thinks that rules, regulations,
procedures and the law do not apply to them - but insists that others adhere rigidly
- an inability to tolerate minor frustrations
- a tendency to act impulsively, recklessly and randomly
- an inability to form stable relationships (the bully's private life is usually a mess)
- an inability or unwillingness to learn from past experience, however unpleasant - this
"learning blindness" is a key feature of the serial bully and differentiates the
serial bully from the unwitting bully; this inability to learn seems to be concentrated in
the area of interpersonal, social, communication and behavioural skills; closer inspection
suggests that the bully does learn from experience, but only how be more secretive and how
to be more skilled at evading accountability
Other adjectives to describe the serial bully include cunning, conniving, scheming,
calculating, cruel, sadistic, ruthless, treacherous, premeditated, exploitative,
pernicious, malevolent, obnoxious, opportunist, unconcerned, etc.
The lack of interpersonal, social, and empathic skills are reminiscent of autism; the
serial bully relies almost entirely on rules, procedures, aggression, denial and mimicry
to hide their lack of people skills. Psychopaths and sociopaths are often excellent actors and mimics.
Most people with this profile are incompetent at their job and the bullying is intended
to hide this incompetence. However, a few recent cases suggest that some serial bullies
(especially the quiet ones):
- are good at carrying out rule-based or procedurally-oriented jobs which require no free
thinking or imagination; these people fall down when required to step outside this role,
eg dealing with people
- (especially males) excel in one area of work (usually scientific in nature) and may be
regarded as the leading authority in their field but are lacking in almost every other
respect, especially in interpersonal skills (this is reminiscent of savant syndrome); they
also tend to be physically aggressive and may have a reputation for sexual harassment
New! Serial bully types
Attention-Seeker |
Wannabe |
Guru |
Sociopath
The profile above covers the most commonly-reported behaviours of serial
bullies. From casework I've been able to identify four primary types of serial bully:
The Attention-Seeker
Motivation: to be the centre of attention
Mindset: control freak, manipulation, narcissism
Malice: medium to high; when held accountable, very high
- emotionally immature
- selectively friendly - is sickly sweet to some people, rude and offhand to
others, and ignores the rest
- is cold and aggressive towards anyone who sees them for what they really
are or exposes their strategies for gaining attention
- overfriendly with their new target, especially in the initial stages of a
new working relationship
- overhelpful, ditto
- overgenerous, ditto
- manipulative of people's perceptions, but in an amateur and childish manner
- manipulative with guilt, ditto
- sycophantic, fawning, toadying
- uses flattery to keep a person in authority on side
- everything is a drama, usually a poor-me drama
- prefers not to solve problems in own life so that they can be used and
re-used for gaining sympathy and attention
- capitalises on issues and uses them as a soapbox for gaining attention
- exploits others' suffering and grief as a vehicle for gaining attention
- misappropriates others' statements, eg anything which can be
misconstrued as politically incorrect, for control and attention-seeking
- excusitis, makes excuses for everything
- shows a lot of indignation, especially when challenged
- lots of self-pity
- often as miserable as sin, apart from carefully constructed moments of
charm when in the act of deceiving
- demanding of others
- easily provoked
- feigns victimhood when held accountable, usually by bursting into tears or
claiming they're the one being bullied and harassed
- presents as a false victim when outwitted
- may feign exclusion, isolation or persecution
- malicious
- constantly tries and will do almost anything to be in the spotlight
- includes Munchausen Syndrome
- the focus of their life is to be the centre of attention
The Wannabe
Motivation: craves respect for being competent and professional despite lacking in
competence and professionalism
Mindset: deceptive
Malice: low to medium; when held accountable, medium to high
- similar to the attention-seeker
- is one of life's chronic underperformers and is best described as
ineffectual in everything
- craves undeserved respect and attention and will go to considerable
lengths to acquire them
- hangs around the fringes of a profession
- not professionally qualified but claims they are a professional because they sit
next to a professional or work alongside or near or in the midst of professionals, or
provide services to professionals
- lacks the ability, competence and professionalism to be a qualified professional
- wants so much to be seen as competent professional person but is unable
and unwilling to put in the work to achieve this
- is unable and unwilling to apply knowledge gained from experience but
instead devotes time and effort to improving skills of deception,
manipulation, false claim, denial and projection
- may have been rejected by their chosen profession for lack of competence
- is spiteful towards and despises anyone who is qualified in the profession from which the bully
has been excluded by virtue of lack of competence
- is likely to be vilifying the profession they want to belong to or which they're
claiming to be part of or which they are claiming to represent
- displays a deep-seated envy and jealousy of the professionals that he or
she works alongside or claims to serve
- harbours a bitter resentment, grudge, distaste and contempt for the professionals that he or
she works alongside or claims to serve
- is likely to be criticising, condemning, disadvantaging and causing
detriment to the professionals he or she works alongside or claims to serve
- may seek positions of power over the professionals he or she works
alongside or claims to serve, perhaps to facilitate a compulsion to
criticise, condemn, disadvantage and cause detriment
- is irresistibly drawn to organisations, roles and positions which offer
the wannabe power and control over the professionals s/he despises (eg
inspection regimes, approval roles, regulatory bodies, ticksheet compliance
schemes, political correctness police, trade union official, etc) - and is often described as a talentless
jobsworth
- when in a position of power associates with and makes alliances with or
surrounds him or herself with clones, drones, minions, fellow wannabes, sycophants
and brown-nosers
- instinctively objects to any suggestion of change, reform, improvement,
progress or evolution, but has no viable or positive alternatives of their
own
- opposes every idea, suggestion, opinion, contribution or reform on
principle but has no original, positive, constructive ideas or contributions
of his or her own
- is likely to plagiarise and steal others' ideas which are then put forward
as their own
- may place undue emphasis or reliance on an old, minor or irrelevant qualification to bolster
their claim of belonging to or deserving to belong to a profession
- may claim ambiguous or misleading or bogus or fraudulent qualifications,
associations and experience
- displays a superior sense of entitlement because they associate with or
serve higher performers
- emotionally immature
- controlling
- easily provoked
- when challenged is adept at rewriting history to portray themselves as competent,
professional and successful, regardless of multiple witnesses and
overwhelming evidence to the contrary
- quickly and loudly feigns victimhood when exposed and held accountable,
often repeatedly and loudly accusing the person holding them accountable of
being a bully
- when held
accountable makes conflicting and contradictory threats and demands (eg
demands apology but orders the other person not to communicate with them)
- when held accountable makes lots of loud but empty threats (eg of legal action such as libel,
slander, defamation
etc)
- only carries out threats of legal action when in the presence of a
superior serial bully, especially a sociopath type
- may indulge their jealousy and envy of professionals or those they claim
to serve by pursuing vindictive vendettas, sometimes with the help of a
superior serial bully, especially a sociopath type
- is easily manipulated and controlled by a superior serial bully
- female wannabes may be arch bullies (some people might call them puppetmasters
or queen bees)
- may surround herself with drones of the opposite sex
- may exploit some perceived vulnerability in self to ensure drone loyalty
- gives the appearance of loyalty to drones but will discard them when they've
served their purpose
- is likely to have affairs to gain power, status or position
The Guru
Motivation: task focused
Mindset: confusion, inability to understand how others think and feel
Malice: zero to low; when held accountable, low to medium (it's often the
absence of malice that identifies a guru type of serial bully) but could be
medium to high if narcissistic or psychopathic traits are present
- often successful in their narrow field of expertise
- regarded as an expert
- valued by the employer because s/he brings in the money, status etc
- ruthlessly pursues objectives regardless of the cost
- ruthless determination to succeed
- can be successful over the medium term in their field
- task focused
- zero people skills
- control freak
- mainly but not exclusively male
- often has a favourite who receives extra attention but who is expected to
reciprocate with sycophancy
- favours, protects and promotes non-threatening sycophants whilst marginalizing
and hindering the advancement of those with higher levels
of competence, especially in people skills
- apt to betray those formerly favoured, especially when the favoured person
starts to show independence of thought or action, or starts to receive more attention or become more
popular than their mentor
- a male Guru in a position of power may exhibit inappropriate sexual conduct
- gauche, aggressive and unpleasant but not evil
- may not be overtly attention-seeking but dislikes those around them
getting more attention than they're getting, or getting attention which
doesn't include the bully
- selfish, self-centred, self-opinionated, dogmatic and thoughtless and with a
tendency to pontificate
- apt to throw temper tantrums when things don't go well or can't get their own way
- emotionally immature, perhaps emotionless, sometimes cold and frigid
- convincingly intellectualises feelings to compensate for emotional immaturity
- intelligent (often highly) but lacks common sense
- is happy to lie to suit own purposes
- can have a rigid routine
- does not accept responsibility for their own behavior
- blames others for own inadequacies
- refuses to recognise that they could have any shortcomings of their own
- does not live in the present
- usually extremely neat (for example, desk is always clear)
- organized (sometimes overly)
- tempts fate but always gets away with it
- has stereotypical ideas about gender roles (though this may not be expressed consciously)
- makes assumptions about others' thoughts
- does not follow social rules, for example may display bad table manners in public
- appears unable and unwilling to engage in and sustain small talk
- seems unaware of the nature and purpose of rapport
- seems to exhibit some symptoms similar to autism, although autistic people
tend to be shy, introspective and lack manipulative skills and are usually
the targets of bullying, not the perpetrators (it's unknown whether there
might be a common cause or whether the similarities are just a superficial
coincidence) [more on autism]
- appears unable to read people and their thoughts and especially feelings
- when held accountable exhibits genuine confusion as to why their behaviour is inappropriate
- in cases where malice is low or absent the person my be regarded as
somewhat avuncular or mildly jovial or charismatic in nature
- likes the appearance of normalcy but rejects responsibilities of relationships
- is unable to comprehend or meet the emotional needs of others
- often puts work and duty above everything, including relationships
- makes power plays, for example leaves the
room when someone is speaking, or pretends not to hear and constantly asking a
person to repeat what they just said, etc
- doesn't share information about self
(thoughts, insights, etc) and is not open to receiving this type of information
from others (allegedly knows it all already)
- secretive
- possessive of objects and sometimes people
- may view people as objects (this enables controlling behaviour of other people)
- thinks of self as superior and above the law / rules / regulations etc
(these only apply to other people)
- uses denial as a defence mechanism
- there are likely to be problems with succession
The Socialised Psychopath or Sociopath
Also known as the corporate psychopath, workplace psychopath, industrial psychopath and
administrative psychopath.
Motivation: power, gratification, personal gain, survival
Mindset: manipulation, deception, evil
Malice: high to very high; when held accountable, off the scale
- Jekyll & Hyde personality
- always charming and beguilingly plausible, especially to those who are
capable of protecting or enhancing the sociopath's position
- excels at deception (this must never be underestimated, but always is)
- excels at evasion of accountability
- is extremely and successfully manipulative of people's perceptions and
emotions (eg guilt and anger)
- silver-tongued, has an extreme verbal facility and can outwit anybody (including a top
barrister) in verbal conflict
- will often engineer himself or herself into a position of authority as gatekeeper of the
organisation and thus the person through whom all information must flow, and the
person to whom all requests for services must be referred - which he or she
then takes delight in denying
- is adept at offering weak and inadequate people the positions of
power, control, security, influence or respect that they crave but who lack the
necessary competencies to achieve - such people are unaware that their
consequent dependence on the sociopath makes them permanent manipulatees, pawns
and expendable agents of harassment
- identifies those essential to the sociopath's survival and manipulates
their perceptions them by making them feel special and thus obligated to
reciprocate with support and protection
- manipulates others into making fools
of themselves in situations where they cannot back down or from which they
cannot withdraw - these people become increasingly susceptible to further
manipulation and are then trapped as pawns in the sociopath's game
- is likely to be surrounded by people who, having been subjected to control, manipulation
and punishment by the sociopath, look wretched and who start to exhibit behaviour best
described as disordered, dysfunctional, sullen, aggressive, defensive, hostile, retaliatory,
counterproductive or cult-like and for whom disbelief, disavowal and denial
are instinctive responses
- creates an environment where levels of denial are so great that those involved are
oblivious of the foolishness and self-evident absurdity of their denials when
presented with the facts, with the result that non-involved observers are
led to question whether such levels of denial merit psychiatric intervention
- is contemptuous of disrepute to their organisation and of collateral damage and of the destructive consequences for all
direct and indirect parties
- is always surrounded by and leaves behind a trail of dysfunctional organisations, destroyed businesses,
ruined careers, stress breakdowns and unexplained suicides
- despite a trail of devastation to individuals, organisations, families and
communities, the actions of a socialised psychopath may go undetected or
unrecognised for years
- a history of conducting frivolous, vexatious and malicious legal actions,
especially (but not exclusively) against anyone who can recognise the
sociopath for what he is
- only after the sociopath is exposed and relieved of position, or they
move on, can the full depth of their destructive behaviour be fathomed and
the consequences calculated
- is skilled at identifying, undermining, discrediting, neutralising and destroying anyone who can see
through the sociopath's mask of sanity
- at all times restricts the actions and rights of others
(especially those holding the sociopath accountable) whilst aggressively
protecting his or her right to do anything without being hampered by social
norms or legal requirements
- pursues endless vindictive vendettas against anyone perceived as a threat or who
attempts, knowingly or unknowingly, to identify or reveal or expose the
sociopath, or who makes efforts to hold the sociopath accountable
- is adept at appropriating rules, regulations, procedures and law to
manipulate, control and punish accusers regardless of relevance, logic, facts or consequences
- persists in and pursues vindictive vendettas using self-evidently false evidence or
information, even after this is brought to the attention of the sociopath
- will often manipulate minor bullies of the Wannabe
type (who on their own might or would not merit the label 'serial
bully') into acting as agents of harassment and as unwitting or unwilling
conductors of vendettas
- is adept at placing people in situations where the sociopath can tap into
each person's instinctive urge to retaliate in order to use them as his or
her instruments or agents of harassment
- gains gratification from provoking others into engaging in adversarial conflict
- once conflict has been initiated, the sociopath gains increased gratification
by exploiting human beings' instinctive need to retaliate - this is achieved
by encouraging and escalating peoples' adversarial conflicts into
mutually assured destruction
- revels in the gratification gained from seeing or causing other people's distress
- when faced with accountability or unwelcome attention which might lead to
others discerning the sociopath's true nature, responds with repeated and
escalating attempts to control, manipulate and punish
- is adept at reflecting all accusations and attempts at accountability back onto their accusers
- is adept at creating conflict between those who would otherwise pool
negative information about the sociopath
- has no limits on his or her vindictiveness
- the need to control, manipulate and punish develops into an obsession with
many of the hallmarks of an addiction
- is skilled at mimicry and can plausibly and spontaneously regurgitate all
the latest management jargon
- exhibits minimal professional skill level and competency
- exploits his or her intelligence to excel at talentless mediocrity
- is always identifying the behaviours and strategies to which other people
respond with the desired effect
- is able to anticipate and credibly say what people want to hear
- is easily able to win people over before betraying them or deceiving them or ripping them off
- easily manipulates and bewitches an immature or naive or vulnerable or
emotionally needy person to be their spokesperson or agent of aggression
- exploits anyone who has a vulnerability
- is pushy and extremely persuasive
- is sexually inadequate and sexually abusive
- is likely to protect anyone accused of or suspected of sexual abuse of
pedophile activity, and will frustrate or obstruct investigations into that person
- maybe associating with, or actively involved in, abuse or pedophile activity
- has no emotions, no emotional processing capability and no ability to
understand other's emotions
- is incapable of understanding, initiating or sustaining intimacy
- the male sociopath has often convinced a string of women to feel they are
in love with him and despite being treated abominably they blindly continue to
be loyal to him and minister willingly to his every demand
- may start projects with apparent enthusiasm and energy but quickly loses interest
- frequently takes unnecessary and uncalculated risks but takes no account of consequences
- is reckless and untrustworthy with money
- is likely to be illegally diverting or siphoning off significant sums of money to his or
her own budget, project, account or cause
- is unreliable and untrustworthy in every facet of life
- is likely to be leaking confidential information or secrets to third parties
- is likely to have committed or be committing criminal or near-criminal
offences, eg fraud, embezzlement, deception
- is likely to have committed or be committing breaches of harassment and
discrimination law, employment law, contract law, etc
- disregards rules, regulations, Health and Safety requirements,
professional standards, codes of conduct and legal requirements, etc
- cannot comprehend the deeper semantic meaning of language and is thus
unable to understand or appreciate metaphor, hyperbole, irony, satire etc (these elicit
either zero response or a hostile response)
- likes, seeks, enjoys and relies on procedure, ritual and ritualistic practices
- through arrogant overconfidence takes increasingly risky chances and
eventually overplays their hand or makes a mistake which leads to the
sociopath revealing him or herself
- exhibits parasitical behaviour, takes everything and gives nothing
- grabs headline credit for minimal, flukey or other peoples' success whilst
surviving off the backs of manipulatees who are exclusively blamed for all failures
- rarely blinks, may have stary scary eyes that cut right through you, or
may avoid eye contact completely
- is callous, cold and calculating
- is devious, clever and cunning
- is ruthless in the extreme
- regards people as objects and playthings to be discarded when surplus to requirements
- displays zero empathy
- completely without conscience, remorse and guilt
- malicious and evil
Power over people
The serial bully is able to exert a hold over people for a variety of reasons.
Targets are disempowered such that they become dependent on the bully
to allow them to get through each day without their life being made hell.
The serial bully is often able to bewitch an emotionally needy colleague into supporting
them; this person then becomes the bully's spokesperson and advocate. How people can be so
easily and repeatedly taken in by the bully's glib charm, Jekyll and Hyde nature, and
constant lying is a mystery. Psychopaths are especially adept at conning people
in this manner.
Antisocial Personality Disorder (APD)
The serial bully exhibits behaviours similar to or congruent with the diagnostic criteria for
Antisocial Personality Disorder.
Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD)
The serial bully exhibits behaviours similar to or congruent with the diagnostic criteria for
Narcissistic Personality Disorder.
Paranoid Personality Disorder (PPD)
The serial bully exhibits behaviours similar to or congruent with the diagnostic criteria for
Paranoid Personality Disorder.
Borderline Personality Disorder
Some visitors to Bully OnLine
have suggested that the bullies in their lives exhibit characteristics of
Borderline Personality Disorder.
Passive Aggressive Personality Disorder
See http://www.toad.net/~arcturus/dd/ddhome.htm
Personality Disorders
There's more on Personality Disorders at http://www.toad.net/~arcturus/dd/ourdesk.htm
Avoiding acceptance of responsibility - denial,
counterattack and feigning victimhood
The serial bully is an adult on the outside but a child on the inside; he or she is
like a child who has never grown up. One suspects that the bully is emotionally retarded
and has a level of emotional development equivalent to a five-year-old, or less. The bully wants to
enjoy the benefits of living in the adult world, but is unable and unwilling to accept the
responsibilities that go with enjoying the benefits of the adult world. In short, the
bully has never learnt to accept responsibility for their behaviour.
When called to account for the way they have chosen to behave, the bully
instinctively exhibits this recognisable behavioural response:
a) Denial: the bully denies everything. Variations include Trivialization ("This
is so trivial it's not worth talking about...") and the Fresh Start tactic ("I
don't know why you're so intent on dwelling on the past" and "Look,
what's past is past, I'll overlook your behaviour and we'll start afresh") -
this is an abdication of responsibility by the bully and an attempt to divert and distract
attention by using false conciliation. Imagine if this line of defence were available to
all criminals ("Look I know I've just murdered 12 people but that's all in the
past, we can't change the past, let's put it behind us, concentrate on the future so we
can all get on with our lives" - this would do wonders for prison overcrowding).
b) Retaliation: the bully counterattacks. The bully quickly and seamlessly follows the denial with an aggressive counter-attack of
counter-criticism or counter-allegation, often based on distortion or
fabrication. Lying,
deception, duplicity, hypocrisy and blame are the hallmarks of this stage. The purpose is
to avoid answering the question and thus avoid accepting responsibility for their
behaviour. Often the target is tempted - or coerced - into giving another long explanation
to prove the bully's allegation false; by the time the explanation is complete, everybody
has forgotten the original question.
Both a) and b) are delivered with aggression in the guise of assertiveness; in fact
there is no assertiveness (which is about recognising and respecting the rights of oneself
and others) at all. Note that explanation - of the original question - is conspicuous by
its absence.
c) Feigning victimhood: in the unlikely event of denial and counter-attack being insufficient, the bully feigns
victimhood or feigns persecution by manipulating people through their emotions, especially guilt. This
commonly takes the form of bursting into tears, which most people cannot handle.
Variations include indulgent self-pity, feigning indignation, pretending to be
"devastated", claiming they're the one being bullied or harassed,
claiming to be "deeply offended", melodrama,
martyrdom ("If it wasn't for me...") and a poor-me drama ("You
don't know how hard it is for me ... blah blah blah ..." and "I'm the
one who always has to...", "You think you're having a
hard time ...", "I'm the one being bullied..."). Other
tactics include manipulating people's perceptions to portray themselves as the injured
party and the target as the villain of the piece. Or presenting as a false
victim. Sometimes the bully will suddenly claim
to be suffering "stress" and go off on long-term sick leave,
although no-one can quite establish why. Alleged ill-health can also be a useful vehicle for
gaining attention and sympathy. For suggestions on how to counter this see the advice on
the FAQ page.
By using this response, the bully is able to avoid answering the question and thus
avoid accepting responsibility for what they have said or done. It is a pattern of
behaviour learnt by about the age of 3; most children learn or are taught to grow out of
this, but some are not and by adulthood, this avoidance technique has been practised to perfection.
A further advantage of the denial/counter-attack/feigning victimhood strategy is that
it acts as a provocation. The target, who may have taken months to reach this stage, sees
their tormentor getting away with it and is provoked into an angry and emotional outburst
after which the bully says simply "There, I told you s/he was like that".
Anger is one of the mechanisms by which bullies (and all abusers) control their
targets. By tapping in to and obtaining an inappropriate release of pent-up
anger the bully plays their master stroke and casts their victim as villain.
When called to account for the way they have chosen to behave, mature adults do not
respond by bursting into tears. If you're dealing with a serial bully who has just
exhibited this avoidance tactic, sit passively and draw attention to the pattern
of behaviour they've just exhibited, and then the purpose of the tactic. Then
ask for an answer to the question.
Bullies also rely on the denial of others and the fact that when their target reports
the abuse they will be disbelieved ("are your sure this is really going on?",
"I find it hard to believe - are you sure you're not imagining it?").
Frequently targets are asked why they didn't report the abuse before, and they will
usually reply "because I didn't think anyone would believe me." Sadly
they are often right in this assessment. Because of the Jekyll & Hyde nature,
compulsive lying, and plausibility, no-one can - or wants - to believe it. Click here for a
detailed explanation of the target's reluctance to report abuse.
Denial features in most cases of sexual assault, as in the case
of Paul Hickson, the UK Olympic swimming coach who sexually assaulted and raped teenage
girls in his care over a period of 20 years or more. When his victims were asked why they
didn't report the abuse, most replied "Because I didn't think anyone would
believe me". Abusers confidently, indeed arrogantly, rely on this belief,
often aggressively inculcating (instilling) the belief ("No-one will ever believe
you") just after the sexual assault when their victim is in a distressed state.
Targets of bullying in the workplace often come up against the same attitudes by
management when they report a bullying colleague. In a workplace environment, the bully
usually recruits one or two colleagues (sometimes one is a sleeping partner - see Affairs below) who will back up the bully's denial when called to
account.
Reflection
Serial bullies harbour a particular hatred of anyone who can articulate their behaviour
profile, either verbally or in writing - as on this page - in a manner which helps other
people see through their deception and their mask of deceit. The usual instinctive
response is to launch a bitter personal attack on the person's credentials, lack of
qualifications, and right to talk about personality disorders, psychopathic personality
etc, whilst preserving their right to talk about anything they choose - all the while
adding nothing to the debate themselves.
Serial bullies hate to see themselves and their behaviour reflected as if they are
looking into a mirror.
Projection
Bullies project their inadequacies, shortcomings, behaviours etc on to other people to
avoid facing up to their inadequacy and doing something about it (learning about oneself
can be painful), and to distract and divert attention away from themselves and their
inadequacies. Projection is achieved through blame, criticism and allegation; once you
realise this, every criticism, allegation etc that the bully makes about their target is
actually an admission or revelation about themselves. This knowledge can be used to
perceive the bully's own misdemeanours; for instance, when the allegations are of
financial or sexual impropriety, it is likely that the bully has committed these acts;
when the bully makes an allegation of abuse (such allegations tend to be vague and
non-specific), it is likely to be the bully who has committed the abuse. When the bully
makes allegations of, say, "cowardice" or "negative attitude" it is
the bully who is a coward or has a negative attitude.
In these circumstances, the bully has to understand that if specious and insubstantive
allegations are made, the bully will also be investigated.
When the symptoms of psychiatric injury become apparent to others, most bullies will
play the Mental Health Trap, claiming their target is "mentally ill" or
"mentally unstable" or has a "mental health problem". It is more
likely that this allegation is a projection of the bully's own mental health problems. If
this trap is being used on you, assert "projection" as a defence against
disciplinary action or as part of your legal proceedings.
It is a key identifying feature of a person with a personality disorder or
psychopathic personality that, when called to account, they will accuse the person who is
unmasking them of being the one with the personality disorder or psychopathic personality
from which they (the bully) suffer.
Affairs
Of over 10,000 cases of bullying reported to Bully
OnLine and the UK National Workplace Bullying Advice Line, in at
least half the cases, the bully is having an affair with another member of staff. The
affair has little to do with friendship, and a lot to do with strategic alliance in
pursuit of power, control, domination and subjugation. In a further quarter of cases,
there's often a suspected affair, and in the remaining quarter, there is often a
relationship with another member of staff based not so much on sexual attraction but on a
mutual admiration for the way each other behaves.
If the bully is a female in a junior position, she finds a weak male in a senior
position (this is usually not difficult) - for example the President, Chief Executive, any
Senior Executive, Finance Director, Personnel Director, or Departmental Director, etc -
then gains patronage, protection and reward (eg promotion) by traditional methods. Once
promotion is gained, the female calculates who can give her the next promotion; if the
first male cannot, he is ditched and another adopted. The males are unlikely to admit this
is happening or has happened.
If the bully is a male in a senior position, he is often sleeping with a secretary or
office administrator, as this is where he gets his information and where he spreads his
disinformation. Sometimes the female junior can be identified by her reward, eg being the
only person allowed to hold the keys of the stock cupboard (everyone has to grovel to her
if they want a new pen), or being put in charge of the office in the bully's absence when
there are others who are senior to her who would make more appropriate deputies.
Most serial bullies have unhappy and unsatisfactory private lives which are
characterised by a string of broken relationships. If you are the current target of a
serial bully and taking legal action, a little digging into the bully's past, including
their personal life, will usually unearth some unsavoury facts that the bully would prefer
not to be made public. In some cases, serial bullies have been found to have criminal
convictions for fraud, or to have been compelled to attend therapy or counselling for
their habit of compulsive lying, or they might have a record of domestic violence. Under
normal circumstances making these facts part of the proceedings might be considered
unethical; however, if you're the target of a serial bully, the circumstances are not normal.
Validity of testimony
Because of the serial bully's Jekyll and Hyde nature, compulsive lying, charm and
plausibility, the validity of this person's testimony cannot be relied on in
disciplinary proceedings, appeal hearings, and under oath at tribunal and in court.
Emphasise this when taking action.
Mediation with this type of individual is inappropriate. Serial
bullies regard mediation (and arbitration, conciliation, negotiation etc) as appeasement,
which they ruthlessly exploit; it allows them to give the impression in public that they
are negotiating and being conciliatory, whilst in private they continue the bullying. The
lesson of the twentieth century is that you do not appease aggressors.
The disordered thinking processes of the criminal / antisocial mind are succinctly
described in Stanton E Samenow's book Straight talk about criminals. For example:
"Certain people who I term non-arrestable criminals behave
criminally towards others , but they are sufficiently fearful [and knowledgeable of
the law - TF] so that they do not commit major crimes. We all know them: individuals
who shamelessly use others to gain advantage for themselves. Having little empathy, they
single-mindedly pursue their objectives and have little remorse for the injuries they
inflict. If others take them to task, they become indignant and self-righteous and blame
circumstances. Such people share much in common with the person who makes crime a way of
life. Although they may not have broken the law, they nonetheless victimize others."
(Chapter 8, The criminal mind exists independent of particular laws, culture or customs)
In Samenow's 1984 book Inside the criminal mind he uses this description:
"Some criminals are smooth rather than contentious,
ingratiating rather than surly, devious rather than intimidating. They pretend to be
interested in what others say. Appearing to invite suggestions, they inwardly dismiss each
idea without considering its merits. They seem to take criticism in stride but ignore it
and spitefully make mental note of who the critic was. They misuse authority and betray
trust but are not blatant about doing so. With the criminal at the helm, employee morale
deteriorates. His method of operation sooner or later discourages others from proposing
innovative ideas and developing creative solutions."
(Chapter 6, Work and the criminal)
I recommend both Samenow's books.
Other web pages of interest
Robert D Hare is a world-leading authority on psychopathic behaviour and author of The
Hare PCL-R Psychopathy Checklist Revised. See http://www.hare.org/
and his articles: Psychopaths: New Trends in
Research and Psychopathy
and Antisocial Personality Disorder: A Case of Diagnostic Confusion
The B-Scan 360 - identifying dysfunctional behaviour in managers and
potential managers: http://www.b-scan.com/
Industrial Psychopaths can thrive
in business: not all psychopaths end up in prison. Many are found
in management positions, according to Dr Paul Babiak speaking at the annual meeting of the
American Neuropsychiatric Association.
Treatment for psychopaths is likely
to make them worse by Robert Hare, PhD.
Channel 4 Equinox Science of
crime examines psychopaths.
Dealing with manipulative people: an excerpt from the book
In Sheep's Clothing By George K Simon.
Tribal Elders has links to sites on
narcissism and psychopathy.
New! Beware
the sociopath: no heart, no conscience, no remorse: how to spot a sociopathic
love fraud con artist
www.bullyeq.com explores the
relationships between bullying, abuse, mobbing, psychopathy and
emotional intelligence in various contexts.
Case histories of people
who are dealing with or have dealt with a serial bully.
Discussion
forum on psychopaths
Personality Disorders
PSYCHOPATH
is a learning, resource and support group
PSYCHOPATH links
Articles
Are
you married to a psychopath? Robert Matthews writes in The Sunday Telegraph, 10 May 1997
Go-getting managers revealed as psychopaths, Robert Matthews writes in The
Sunday Telegraph, 10 May 1997
How
to spot the socialised psycho, Robert Matthews tells you how to recognise a
psychopath, Sunday Telegraph, 10 May 1997
Yes,
I live with a psychopath, Robert Matthews writes more about psychopaths following
a flood of letters in response to his previous article. Sunday Telegraph, 12 July 1997.
Psycho
bosses on the loose: are you in their line of fire? Hilary Freeman writes about
psychopathic bosses in the Rise section for graduate of
The Guardian, 10 March 2001.
Chief
executives should be screened to weed out psychopaths, says Robert Hare
Snakes
in suits and how to spot them, an article on psychopaths in corporations in The Times
Serotonin and dopamine levels may be important in psychopathic behaviour
Daily Mail article
Is that a
psycho sitting next to you at work?
Kate Hilpern in
The Guardian
reveals the socialised psychopath as charming and plausible, but they hide a dark secret.
Michael Steinberger in the
New
York Times looks at corporate psychopaths thrive on constant downsizing and relentless merging.
Working
with Monsters - dealing with the workplace psychopath:
John Clarke discusses his book Working with Monsters: How to identify and
protect yourself from the workplace psychopath on ABC Brisbane.
Is your boss a psychopath? Probably, if we are to believe the results of a new scientific
study, says the Guardian's Oliver James.
Snakes in suits:
transcript of Australian Radio National program about corporate psychopaths
with Robert Hare and Paul Babiak: http://www.abc.net.au/rn/talks/bbing/stories/s1265568.htm
Psychopaths
or Psychopathic Students in Criminal Justice: A Problem for the Profession
of Criminal Justice by Russell Eisenman.
Of Criminals And
CEOs: the difference between bold, creative visionaries and deluded psychopaths
is not as big as it used to be, Tara Pepper writes in Newsweek.
University
of Southern California study shows brains of pathological liars differ from normal people.
Books
Without conscience, the disturbing world of psychopaths among us,
Robert D Hare, The Guilford Press, 1999, ISBN 1-57230-451-0.
The mask of sanity, Hervey Cleckley, C V Mosby Publishing, Fifth
Edition, 1976. The standard work on psychopathy which describes at length the damage a
psychopath causes to the family unit and to society.
New!
Toxic
Coworkers: How to Deal with Dysfunctional People on the Job: Working with the
narcissists, borderlines, sociopaths, schizoids, and others, Alan A
Cavaiola PhD and Neil J Lavender PhD, New Harbinger Publications; 1st edition, 2000
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